How Do I Get Her Back?

Q: I have been facing a problem from almost a year now and can’t find out what to do…. I have liked a girl since I was 4 years old, we were friends – met her in a class. We had spent a lot of time with each other. But somehow things went wrong and we are now separated from each other. I did everything I could to get her back but no results. What should I do?

A: Wow! 4 years old? This is the mere definition of a long term love affair! Without some of the potent facts (what went wrong and what you have done to try to get her back) – I can’t provide guidance there; however, the way you speak resonates an a feeling of emptiness, as if you are not able to exist without her. I invite you to consider that is a lie.

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